It’s wise to enjoy the sense of hunger so we can be more grateful again after. Do not have complain about anything that we face in this life, because everything can for good to us. Depending how we react in our heart and how we think in mind.
mind.

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Have you ever drive in heavy rain at night? You can not see the road way. You can only follow the car before you. You never have any doubt because you see. You see, then you believe. Now the question is, who do I trust for? It is difficult question but difficult to answer.

First, be that man. Be someone who can be trusted. Second, do you have spouse. If you have, she or he is the first you can trust. Talk all your goal with your spouse. I don’t want to say that you can not ask someone else you can trust.  My point is, if your spouse could be, your spouse is the first. There is a big power inside, if you can walk along and your spouse is walking with you.

What are you pursuing now? Have you take your spouse involved? Do not wait to long, do not walk alone. If you don’t want to take your spouse involve, so what is spouse to be?

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This is a good question. If you have ever asked this question to yourself you have walked 50%. Others 50% is action. Before we continue how we can be trusted, let we talk why we can not trust someone. It is hard to trust someone who have one or more as following:

- Having no integrity
- Not capable.
- Lazy people.
- Having no vision (goal)
- Having different vision.
- Bossy people.
- Unstable Character.
- Having no willingness.

Can you trust someone who have no integrity in life or someone bossy? I think it would take and spent your energy more and more. Now, how can I be trusted can be answered by doing the negative of such point above.

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In this life we also find the same lessons to learn, both in terms of positive and negative things.
In the negative case, think and careful about this. What a people has heard and what he has seen would give him an influence. How much? As much as his willingness to accept. We will be like what we hear, will will be like what we read, and would like what we see. Be careful, small changes, if allowed to continue influencing us, it will produce big changes.

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Integrity can be interpreted freely by the entirety. Does not split or divided, does not have a bias or double standards. Relate with a tough character, integrity is a value that can be attributed to someone in measuring his personal maturity.

People use integrity as a holistic concept, judging the integrity of systems in terms of those systems’ ability to achieve their own goals.  Some people see integrity as the quality of having a sense of honesty and truthfulness in regard to the motivations for one’s actions.

Integrity also means having the same value, which burned in him will not waver in wherever he was. Not be stated “yes” and “no” to the same thing, at the same time. Not doing bad things although none able to saw.

With high integrity we can avoid the confusion in determining attitudes. This also in turn will allow you to dare to take a difficult decision. Today, being live with full integrity. Your goal will be reached more perfect.

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I also often hear people said that those who are closest to them are the people we often hurt them. Do not let it be, start today to consider the people around us by giving more attention, appreciation and love at least giving as the same as the greeting we have paid to the new one we know.

The people near you. If we can care the people between us, we can do more effective to care others new.

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What should we do if there’s a earth quake. Go out side of any building. Do not try to go in to take any of your goods.

By experience the earth quake we know that we are nothing without the creator of this earth. Thanks God for his Authority.

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• What if, doing such things be added with ….. (mention your ideas)
• What if, the case of ….. executed first before of ….. (take an example from his/her previous statement)
• If you are really "correct" you can say: "I also think like you before, but eventually I reach the conclusion that ….

You can add other questions appropriate to conditions you have. Pay attention to word what if. It sound more friendly rather than I Think.

After asking the question above you may start to bring your ideas in. Remember any ideas or opinions are come from different backgrounds, different experience, different maturity and different way of think.

Once in a while, there is a possibility that "person who is always right" is in correct, but how he/she talk bring to offend other people in most. Therefore we must remember that we also may be wrong.

My point is do not go in to debate, unless you’re in the debate time. If things had been debated, the pursuing goal of the parties argue only one: How to win in the debate.

Be wise to talk by keeping quiet in the right time.

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Ok, that appreciation for other people. I think, it’s worthy to give any appreciation for our own achievement. Appreciate yourself for what you have done good. It’s not measured how big the appreciation is. Just reward it. It does not mean there must have reward in every achievement we have had. Be wise, if the reward could take you up and open the way to challenge us, reward it. If you think there should be a little more step must be achieved before rewarding, do it.

Appreciation and reward that cost nothing is what you talk to yourself. Thanks to God, reward your achievement. This is something tiny reward you can do for yours.

1. Write a card, put down your name.
2. Write a postcard, mail to your own address.
3. Ask your friend or your spouse to have a special time, such as unusual lunch, dinner, etc.

Appreciating others is good as you appreciate yourself.

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