When I was in traffic jam, especially on the tol way. I see a simple or a tiny accident could make a long-long jam. Why that condition frequently appeared? Simply none can understand none can predicted well what really happen just in a few meter from the driven car. In this case we need somebody who can tell us where we are and where to go in the right time in the right place.

It is worthy to listen to the experienced people, and listen what they have done before. It was a bad for them but good for us to LEARN.

If all the driver know that the incident occurred in front of it, surely they will avoid the road row although it appears less of jam. The problem will be overcame if all the driver know what is going on in front and all have been taking the right direction in while still a enough significant distance.

In this journey of life, we often face on issues like that. Burdened a responsibility or asked something new. Entering a new school, new jobs, new areas or new rules, we often focus on what appears in front of the eye. The failure of another person come flying on our ear has increasingly encourage us to doubt and fear.

Did you know what we have afraid in, 80% of them do not occur. Do not believe in all that visible in accordance with the truth. See what is invisible is not wrong, just need to realize that because of our limited senses, the assessment, we also limited in that limited sense.

The problem is how we can see, at least how to try to peek behind the wall as well as trying to find out what happens at the steps ahead. Ask to the old men and listen their opinions without debate. They are more sociable and have more experience. They can tell us how they have been going through in what we will face.

Experience can not be purchased. Money can be sought. Through a success story, biography, the testimony of other people find the reflection of your position to move forward. See you at the end of a success

Today I was in traffic jam more than 3 hours. This is the long-long jam I have ever been. It is so different with the day before. What to do? I just bring a little book that I have read since 2 days a go.
Why this happend today? Last rainy night? The motor cycle driver? Why the motor cycle always go in where the open are? Could they see after a short meter just make a bigger jam?
If I was a motor rider, I will never go out through the entry way and I will come to the way to make another jam. I know delayed 10 minutes will save hours.
If the people on the road has a little more patience what has happen could certainly be different. But how someone can be patient in the bottleneck? How can someone stay on track in case of congestion? How small vehicles such as motorcycles can be patient in order not to creep out of the cleft, although they will be late to work? And the boss will be angry?

Be patient, start from yourself to be patient. Waiting patiently 5 minutes, you can speed up to 30 minutes. That often happens.