In Computer world we know a term called short cut. This short cut is an effective way to help us to enter the address we want or open a file that we want.
In other word we do something simple instead of couple steps we ought to do. But in other case such as mental and mindset formation world, character building, loyalty, kindness, patience and others good fruits similar to, there is no short cut.
I once ever heard an illustration about the life of the caterpillar, chrysalis until it becomes what a beautiful butterfly. You know that all the difficulties experienced by the cocoon is what contributes to the formation of life of a beautiful butterfly.
Be careful in giving aid, do not stop the process of change by your help because of no short cut available.
I ever wrote this article on motivational site talking about time. Have a look at this site link.
Many people say that they do not have time. But if we analyze this statement a little more, it usually comes from people who have no written schedule. Why they have no time is just because they lack time management.Just a bit different, we still found people who say there is no time because it seems people are busy, have a fairly neat agenda and manage it well, but they say that they do not have time either.
Having time or having no time often comes from the priorities we own. I play games just because I think playing games has a higher priority than other things. We can find many people who are still working while most people have slept their time away. Why? Because they have a priority. Priorities allow them to make time available.
Is your family have a priority with you? Surely there will be time for them? Do you have time for a visit with each other, because there is certainly a priority you give to it? You have time for the investment; that means you put a priority on that. A priority will give you time and time comes upon you because you have a priority. There was a priority, due to the time given; there was time, due to the priority it was given to. So find out your priority first, there will be enough time for that.
— Written in 2009 by Darman Purba — West Java, Indonesia
Not too many people dare to spend their time challenging their life. Reason: no time. Time is prepared, split, from our whole available time. If we do not pick it out, time will be nothing. http://www.darmanpurba.com
Sometimes time is defined as cronological terms, but time is also has been defined as a tail of animals passing through in front of us, and we could not grasp it because it’s tail is not at the back as used to.
It teach us to grasp it before he passed. Hold the time before it pass. If it has passed away, we just have a history of the cronological one.
Time only appear to our priority. No priority no time.
Integrity can be interpreted freely by the entirety. Does not split or divided, does not have a bias or double standards. Relate with a tough character, integrity is a value that can be attributed to someone in measuring his personal maturity. Integrity as a concept has to do with perceived consistency of actions, values, methods, measures, principles, expectations and outcome.
People use integrity as a holistic concept, judging the integrity of systems in terms of those systems’ ability to achieve their own goals. Some people see integrity as the quality of having a sense of honesty and truthfulness in regard to the motivations for one’s actions.
Integrity also means having the same value, which burned in him will not waver in wherever he was. Not be stated “yes” and “no” to the same thing, at the same time. Not doing bad things although none able to saw.
With high integrity we can avoid the confusion in determining attitudes. This also in turn will allow you to dare to take a difficult decision. Today, being live with full integrity. Your goal will be reached more perfect.