Self defeating, How can we do it?

Have you ever felt pressured by the rules that apply to you? Maybe your answer is “Yes”.

If the rules or discipline that you have inside much higher standard or level, following the discipline from the outside much easier. Self-defeating it is a highest victory. The biggest one we can have.

Take an examples to get up early in the morning. For myself, if it difficult to me to wake up from sleep, due to my laziness, because I prefer to pulled the blanket covers back to sleep or lying lazily actually. What I do is counting 1,2,3 .. upto 10 and I’ve promised that when it’s counted to five (5), I have to get up. Until now it got succeed for me. Want to try?

A reference can be ..

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I put here an example. Blogging. Blogging now one of the most popular in the world. Why that so popular, the answer can be found here. Detail in step by step. About.com has a lot of article that help you get in to blogging. Guidance for starting a blog, Tools, How to design a Blog, Marketing Blog, Blogging Jobs, Business Blogging and also How to monetize your Blog. Have a look.

Quick Answer "Can not"

Have you ever noticed someone if posed a question to? Some one without long thinking would say “can not” or “do not”? Answers like this are often accompanied by our true opinions.

My point is if we say something “do not” or “can not” without thinking any longer, there is the tendency of all things will be felt closed to come after to hold and stop us to walk. I do not intend to say that we should always say “can” to everything.

Consider all things calmly, if indeed is there any clear reason? Are there any way out? If all obstacles can be solved necessarily your can answer “can” instead of “can not” to the question you are asked for. Surely having an exactly answer in a quick time need a number of exercises or experiences in the problems encountered, So do not avoid the problem. It very valuable experience.