Year: 2009

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Keep your Child exited

This morning, I was asked again by my child do not forget to sign up his working paper work. He has asked me to do that since last night. But due to being in a headache, I just put my sign in to 4 works he has done. I said, "It is enough san, does it book has finished sind you passed the A level of kindergarten school, I asked?" He replyed, "Yes, Papi". "So, you do not need to pass it to your teacher any more right, so let Papi sign it later on afternoon after work, I continued." "Ya, ya … he replied"

Last night a few hours I go to the doctor, get consult of my headache. I am get well in the morning. I woke him up, washing his body before going to school and so on.

On the way to work, I thought. I have ever been like my child. I need more appreciation from my Father, mother for the best I did. So my child, what is the different? Nothing. He need it. It is not so influence to me but it will keep him in his way to learn, exlore something exiting for him.

Now I will go home early, 2 hours early than I used to be, Just for asking what else I am going to sign on my child working paper.

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Pursuing goal, increase the possibility.

Remember of word saying, anything possible will happend! That is right. We will focus to the words of Possible.

If we draw a cube -like dice- with 1,2,3,4,5,6 number on it’s side the possibility number 1 at the top should be (1/6) so does the other number. The possibility of the Red on traffic light will be (1/3) in the other word, Those Traffic light and Cube will show that appearance according to its probability.

Now lets talk about making goal. Just say making goal to be arrive at the airport soon in 45km far away. Is that possible to happend to be arrived at the airport? Sure, but it depend on how fast you move getting there. If we move in average 45km/h we will get there one hour later, by moving in average 90km/h will be arrive just in half hour.

In fact some people expect a better life by doing things just in the same way. It is possible to have a better life comes by? May be. The better life may come to us with no changes in us, but it may take long long time, and none can say when. As mentioned before, cube for a number has a probability (1/6) but it is not meaning 6 times will make a number exactly appear! Because a number could appear twice or more. We just can predict.

Now even has said something possible will happend we can not mention it correct matematicaly. To make a cube in expecting a desired number will appear we need to make something different in way to draw. Making cube only roll in straight will increase the probability of expecting number becomes (1/4) because we stop the possibility of 2 numbers. Others way can make the possible things to be happend in a measured time. In the same way, it is wise to do something different way to make our goal, our hope, dream come true.

It is wise to pursue goal in different manner if no significant things have appeared bringing us to our goals. We can only result the same with the same act both for good or bad. Pursue goal, increase the possibility.

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Self talk

Although we have walked in the right track, doing what is right. We are not guarantee to be free of negative voices. There are 2 of the negative voices that we have to care about.

1. Others people talk.
2. Self talk.

Others talk can never stopping us. What ever they said it can not stopping us. Who can stop? Ourselves, so be careful for the self-talk. Self-talk can make us going forward, challenge us, stopping our walk or pushing us to return back. Self-talk can stimulate us to good or to wrong decision. It is good to talk and think the positive things.

I do not ask anyone to deny anything come from others. But if there is a negative thought comes nearer, be careful of our self talk. Self-talk can be controlled. It’s ours.