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You Are Your Own – President

Snapshot of me 3Congratulations!  You are the president of your own nation, and it is called "Imagination".  This particular nation is the driving force behind your life and is the underlying factor for your future. You need to realize that you have an enormous responsibility as the President of this Nation, because you need to always focus on the future and strive to have the ultimate nation. You need to internalize the power you have as the President of your own nation.  Among many things that you have is the power to choose and/or consider.  You are the one who holds the votes on who is allowed to live in your nation!

As I have written about in the past, you must create and begin to maximize your mastermind team.  This team will empower you to build an unreal imagination and make others wonder why you are achieving such an awesome level of success.  As the President, you will inspire others to create other phenomenal imaginations of their own.  The world needs many people who are proud of their own "Imagination”.

Each of us has the ability to imagine such powerful dreams for our future, which can change the destiny of millions of people.  Let’s think about a few people who had unreal imaginations — Henry Ford imagined an 8-cylinder car and then achieved it.  The Wright Brothers imagined men could fly and then discovered a way to make that possible.  John F. Kennedy said that we would have a man on the moon and then achieved it.  Ask yourself right now, "Where did they all dream of those achievements first?"  The answer to that question is…They did their dreaming in their own nation called Imagination!
You need to take some personal time and evaluate how you are handling your nation.  Are you proud of what you are imagining you can be or what you can do?  If you answer that question truthfully, you will either be enthused or disillusioned.  You truly need to re-examine your nation. I suggest that you brainstorm, which means to take some time for yourself and just write down all the dreams that you have but never even wrote down. I also recommend that you write down 100 of them and then put them away for 2 days so that they can sink in a little.  When you go back and read them, your inner spirit will direct you to the one that you need to focus on and begin to design with your own "Imagination".  Each of us is empowered to create wealth for ourselves in every aspect of life — spiritually, physically, and financially!

I challenge you right now to utilize your God-given imagination and imagine whatever you want to be then you will empowered to run your nation in the most productive methods possible.  This alone will entirely change your life for the better, because now you have a responsibility as a President of a nation – your "Imagination".

Find Your WHY and FLY!

John Di Lemme

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Faith: The Invisible Life Coach

Maslow’s hierarchy of needs

There are times when we are at our lowest and become desperately in need of all the right answers. Even how much we try to think straight, we are just so overwhelmed by our troubles that we allow it to just fade us away from our capability of being a thinking being. We succumb to the woes of despair when we have nothing supporting us.

We lose belief in ourselves. We need someone or something to bring us out of the dark, lest we yield to death. When all else fail, we are held by one last effort to preserve our sanity. An entity we can not even see or touch or hear, we call it faith – the invisible life coach.

We are dependent on many things in order to live peacefully and in harmony of ourselves and with others. According to Maslow, a theorist during the 2nd World War stated that there are levels of motivation which drives a man to be productive and positive.

Humans start with the basic Physiological needs like food and shelter, then seeks safety with socialization, then seeks love and belonging from the social group, then proceeds with self esteem security from the outcome of the previous three items, then reaches the pinnacle of harmonious human thinking which is self-actualization, being able to integrate all the areas of needs into the self.

It is true that man has a way to gather these needs and actually make it his basis for self contentment, but one major flaw in this is the possibility of a deficiency in getting all these which results to a breakdown of the whole hierarchy of needs and puts the person back in the shadows of gloom.

Though the first five needs are ever present for the individual to gather and integrate, it needs a binding base and a holding top layer. Whenever the hierarchical needs crumble, the person can still hold on to a thin but durable layer to work his way back up, and when he is able to reconstruct until self-actualization, he is able to hold it in place with the same layer.

This is where faith comes in. A sturdy belief in the unseen and believing that it will keep sanity in place is something more than self-actualization as it goes beyond normal human thinking and tangible comprehension.

The souls alternate type of fuel

We have learned to rise above the ashes time and time again. Others may have failed and allowed themselves to be destroyed totally. Yet until we are breathing, we have the capability to turn things around and hurl ourselves back into wellness.

We are given a mind to think of what to do, a heart to keep us strong against pessimistic events, and a body to perform the necessary actions. The soul is the collective being of our mind, body, and heart. It can still exist with a lack of the other, and is seated in the mind.

This altered existing entity no one sees drives each one of us to simply exist. We do not see, hear, hold, or comprehend it, but we know it is there. We know that each of our souls need its own motivation, and it needs a fuel which is ethereal to suit the ethereal life of our spirits.

Faith, among all others is the belief that we could hang on to when the material world fails us. Faith is the food to our soul to keep our most basic existence in place, may it be with something, a deity, or any other unseen object. It participates in our day to day living just like a life coach, only this time; it is invisible, yet stronger than any other life coach that we may encounter.

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Save Your Marriage And Avoid Divorce

Today, many marriages are found to be ending in divorce. Marriage is a start of relation, while divorce is an end. After passing of few days or months of married, life, some conflicts and bitterness may get started. Sometimes, the couple began to think about the divorce.

However, divorce changes social trends and causes adverse effects for the both the partners. Hence, it is always recommended to save marriage stop divorce.

Marriage has a great importance in the life of every human being as it gives personal and social stability and it is also necessary to satisfy your emotional and physical needs. It may be essential to get the prestigious social status as living a single or getting separated is not accepted by the society in some countries.

It is not easy for a man or a woman to live alone whole life. After divorce, the individual may have to face physical, psychological and economical problems. The family life of the person is totally collapsed. Divorce also can cause sexual deprivation.

Separation or divorce of the parents affects a lot to the children. It may give rise to psychological problems which can affect the tender minds of children as they need both the parents equally. The children may get mentally and physically disturbed and feel insecure due to which their future may get spoiled. Looking towards these effects, you should strive to save marriage stop divorce.

It is not easy to keep the relationships alive, for that, you have to take some efforts. If you strongly wish to save marriage stop divorce, you should try to improve yourself. Some possible factors that can affect your relationships are the broken trust, boredom, infidelity, poor communication, addictive behavior, emotional abuse, absence of sex and affection and lack of appreciation.

Once you know about the reasons, you should try to find out the options to solve them. The main reason for the divorce is a lack of understanding and compromises. Hence, you should give away your ego to maintain the healthy relationships and should take an initiative to resolve the problems in your married life.

Self-assessment is a very important step to save marriage stop divorce which includes thinking about your mistakes. If you want to be a good partner, you should have a capacity to listen to your partner and understand him/her for which you need a good communication skill. You should be able to keep calm and talk through the problem. When your partner is talking with you, you should ask the related questions and clarify the queries.

If you both are not able to solve problems in your married life, you can consult your family or friends and seek an advice from them. You may realize your mistakes after talking with them and can try to correct them. If you don’t feel it satisfactory, you can try for marriage counseling. You may go to counselor’s office and find the solutions to save marriage, stop divorce.

Counseling can help the couples to improve their communication skills, to uncover some other problems or issues, find out the differences and understand the troubles. You can also go for a trial separation which gives the couple enough time for to think about their differences, their mistakes, problems in their married life and ways to resolve them.